Yangki Christine Akiteng

20 Tale-Tell Signs That Your Dating Relationship Is Going No-Where Fast



Posted: Wednesday, January 24, 2007

by
The Real People's Love Doctor

Many men/women are caught off-guard when a relationship ends but quite often the writings are so obviously on the wall. If you really wanted to see it you'd not miss.

Here are some obvious signs

1. You have a feeling it's not love but you are not sure

2. He/she does not return your phone calls or if the call is dropped you are the one always calling back

3. You don't spend as much time together and there are fewer open days on his/her social calendar.

4. Conversations run dry very quickly

5. Everything you do ticks him/her off and vice versa

6. You chose to believe his/her lies even when you know the truth

7. He/she constantly reminisces over a past relationship and/or ex

8. The word 'space' has been mentioned more than once

9. You don't express what you really feel because you do not want to hurt his/her feelings or drive him/her away

10. You act like you do not know what's going on when you do

11. You are embarrassed to admit to family members, friends or co-workers that you are seeing each other - in a dating way

12. He/she tells you he/she does not think "you are the one"

13. You ask him/her what they like/love about you and he/she takes minutes to think about it or comes up with stuff that has nothing to do with you as a person

14. He/she ignores you in public or spends more time looking at other men/women

15. He/she suddenly want to "see other people"

16. You are not happy but you are also not quite sure if you want to leave

17. You stay because you believe that he/she will not find anyone else who'll love him/her the way you do

18. He/she does not want sex anymore - they may even cringe when you try to touch or be affectionate

19. He/she talks about the future in that obviously does not include you

20. People keep mistaking you for "single" - people who are in love have that twinkle in the eye

Nobody really wants to hurt others or be intentionally cruel (except if he/she is a Psychopath) so most people before they leave will drop hits telling us it's time to go, but you ignore them because you do not want the pain of a break-up. The tricky part is that although you were trying to avoid pain, you end right back to where you started - banging your head against a brick wall and trying to figure it out, why, why did it go wrong? Why me? What's wrong with me? When will I get it right? Who will I end up with? How will I know this one is the right one?

If you are struggling (or going crazy) with getting over a relationship that drifted apart for no apparent reason, the break up was your fault and you think it could have been prevented or if you are considering giving your ex a second chance (and not sure if it's worth a second try), I have a whole section on my website dedicated to men/women trying to love again but feeling stuck on an ex; and anyone convinced his/her current lover is stuck on an ex (some tell-tale signs that he/she is really over an ex).


Internationally recognized Relationships Coach and author of three popular eBooks: Dating Your Ex, The Art of Seducing Out Of Fullness and Playing Hard To Get the Love Way, Yangki Christine Akiteng has devoted years of her life helping men and women create loving, authentic, exciting and fulfilling relationships. Having lived and worked in Africa, Europe and North America, Yangki brings a unique international perspective and multicultural understanding to her work. For more articles and information on the services she offers to singles and couples please visit: www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com

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