Top 25 Feminine Features Men Look For But Often Overlook
Posted: Tuesday, October 07, 2008
by Yangki Christine Akiteng
The Real People's Love Doctor
They say men are visual creatures by nature-- personally I wish they were not.
I am not saying this because I wish I looked like Cindy Crawford, Lucy Liu, Halle Berry or Naomi Campbell (it wouldn't be so bad though). I am saying this because I think it's just sad that men obsess about women they can never have (and may not be worth much) and ignore or reject women who are in every way more woman but not "Top Model" material.
But I want to show you something. Take my hand, I want you to come with me to where my mind goes -- sometimes.
A man is sitting across a woman, or a man is staring at a woman across the room or even a man is lying on his back on his bed daydreaming of this perfect stranger he only saw once, but instead of seeing her with the eyeballs in his skull he actually can see her with the eyes in his mind; see the feminine in her features.
1. Hair -- relaxed, outgoing and fun
2. Skin -- soft , bright and multi-layered
3. Forehead -- open, confident and upfront
4. Eyes -- warm, charming and exciting
5. Brow -- thoughtful, attentive and empathetic
6. Cheekbones -- mature, responsible and independent
7. Nose - unique, witty and sassy
8. Lips -- inviting, expressive and responsive
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9. Neck - graceful, courteous and reasonable
10. Arms -- passionate, loyal and nurturing
11. Hands -- gentle, sensitive and caring
12. Fingers -- hard-working, capable and competent
13. Shoulders -- supportive, dependable and uplifting
14. Bust -- sharp, well-rounded and has moral fiber
15. Back -- disciplined, self-controlled and resilient
16. Bosom -- kind, understanding and compassionate
17. Waist -- deep, profound and self-aware
18. Hips -- flexible, accommodating and easy going
19. Butt - bubbly, playful and oomph
20. Thighs - tough, capable and driven
21. Knees -- generous, tolerant and patient
22. Legs -- steady, courageous and determined
23. Feet -- grounded, unwavering and down-to-earth
24. Body - dynamic, spirited and energetic
25. Woman - BEAUTIFUL!
Now that you've been where my mind goes -- sometimes, don't you think it'd be absolutely wonderful if men could be able to see past the visual and see the feminine in totality? If women could stop trying to present the woman they're not and allow men to see the woman they really are? May be then we can get some true love flowing, because if we are honest with ourselves -- it's far much easier in the 21st Century to become a millionaire or win "Top Model" than to find true love.
About the Author: Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned Dating Confidence/Relationships Coach who has devoted her life to the blending of indispensable age-old wisdom with modern realities into a prescription for passion, vitality, balance and effortlessness. Her thought-provoking message of conscious intentionality offers singles new, realistic and stimulating insights to rediscovering the mysteries and eternal beauty of men - women sexual relationships.
Christine's main website: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com
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I think first we women need to know who we are. Know ourselves, be our best friends. Once we accomplish this, we will know what we want out of life and will know what kind of man we need in our lives.We live in such a material world, that so many of us feel that happpiness and fulfillment are found in a physical relationship, which of course until we realize that is not true, the cycle continues.As far as a man, we tend to talk about the man we want but seldom focus on what a good man wants. Are we it? Are we going to be a gift to him or are we just concerned about our needs?In my journey, I have found I need to have a relationship with my creator first, who knows me better than myself. Then once I know who I am, strengthen my relationship with self. In the process pray for your husband to be. Not that you will meet him, because what is yours will come, once you align yourself for the gift... but pray for him as if you already know him. Pray that he will make wise decisions, pray for his safety and protection until you cross each others path... Being a spiritual woman, that was the top "feature" I wanted him to be looking for and that was/is the top "feature" I will always admire in my mate.Please log in to respond to this comment.Thank you for taking the time to read and comment, Daughter Nature. I agree with you that becoming our own best friend and having a relationship with oursleves and wth someone or something greater than ourselves is where it all begins.I am happy for you that you knew exactly what you needed to do for yourself and that you found the qualities you will always admire in your mate... :-) All the best in life -- and in love!Please log in to respond to this comment.
