Drive Your Man or Woman Crazy In Love With Romantic Words In a Foreign Language
Posted: Friday, March 27, 2009
by Yangki Christine Akiteng
The Real People's Love Doctor
One of the best things about dating or being in a relationship with a man or woman who doesn't speak your native language is that when you say something sweet, deeply emotional or naughty in your native language and in a foreign accent, it can add a romantic edge to the relationship and get the blood up and going -- rather quickly.
Something about a taste of "foreign pleasures" -- faraway exotic locations, different cultures, exotic cuisines, foreign languages and accents -- drives up levels of dopamine (the chemical associated with romantic love) bringing out the romantic in a majority of people. Romances begin, people fall in love and marry, and couples fall in love all over again.
Everybody has what turns them on and why, but most English speakers I know agree that French, Spanish and Italian are probably the three world's languages of romance. You may think some other language is your "other language of romance", or you may already speak fluent French, Spanish or Italian and want to try something different. This is entirely a matter of individual taste. I personally would love to be able to say some romantic words in Japanese. I think it'd be so cool and sexy in its own level.
You don't even have to be fluent in the language. I met some fluent English speakers -- men and women -- who find a man or woman passionately trying their best to speak English (broken English) crazily sexy.
Just make an effort to pronounce the words right and with the right accent. To win a few extra points with a date or mate who speaks another native language other than the one (or ones) the two of you share, learn a little more of his or her native language. That's taking it to him or her up close and personal. It may not get you a marriage proposal but it can add a romantic twist to a date or relationship.
It is a way not only to have fun but is also a way of expressing affection and warmth for each other; a statement of the intimate and exclusive bond between the two of you. It is especially emotionally nourishing if you have jokes, innuendoes and phrases that have special meaning to just the two of you. Most people wind up liking and loving each other even more.
So, don't be shy about starting a flirty foreign experience banter with a potential date or mate.
Nakupenda! Je T'aime! Ti Amo! Te Quiero! Kimi O Ai Shiteru! I Love You!
Now, get out of here! Go drive your man or woman crazy in love... :-)
About the Author: Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned Dating Confidence/Relationships Coach who has devoted her life to the blending of indispensable age-old wisdom with modern realities into a prescription for passion, vitality, balance and effortlessness. Her thought-provoking message of conscious intentionality offers singles new, realistic and stimulating insights to rediscovering the mysteries and eternal beauty of men - women sexual relationships.
Christine's main website: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com
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Top-level comments on this article: (1 total)Love this article, Christine! I went to Paris over spring break with my oldest son and a group of high school seniors (alas, couldn't take my man!). I came back saying that I wanted to learn a whole lot more French because it sounds so lovely to say romantic things AND it's definitely impressive when the speaker is angry! LOLPlease log in to respond to this comment.I read about your trip to Europe with tomorrows leaders on your status update! You’re so right about an angry French speaker, especially a woman… LOL! A lot more French will be handy -- for ALL occasions… ;-)Glad you loved the article. I appreciate you commenting.Please log in to respond to this comment.
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